Well has things get hectic in life..i decided to make some changes for the better..I have deleted my facebook account to make my marriage a better..I am hoping just for awhile ...but we will see..so this is how family and friends will be able to catch up on the Sterling family..and I amkinda of a slacker at this but I am hoping to get all up to date..soon with this..has for now I am going to just say I am very happy and kids have grown so much..i will try and update this some more later..